Manifesting A Specific Person - 4 Steps You Must Follow (updated 2022)
*Post updated 22 February 2022
Manifesting a specific person is one of the most common questions I get asked as a Manifestation Coach.
Whether it's about;
➤ How to manifest someone to love you
➤ How to manifest an ex back
➤ Or, even how to manifest love with a specific person
The process I use with my clients is always the same.
Keep reading below to learn how to manifest someone specific.
Manifesting A Specific Person - 4 Steps You Must Follow
Release Limited Thinking
If you currently find yourself desiring someone specific to think about you, like you, or even fall in-love with you…
You need to read this…
Yes, there are lots of different articles out there with information telling you how to manifest someone specific by thinking about them, visualising them or even using techniques like 3 6 9 method, or scripting to attract them, but following that advice can often be counterproductive and I’ll explain why…
Sometimes we can have an idea in our mind of something we want to manifest (like attracting a specific person) but that person isn’t the right one for us.
I know I know, you’re probably thinking: “But I KNOW this person is the right one for me!”
And it definitely IS possible that this person is the right one for you, but if you are focusing all of your manifesting efforts JUST towards them in particular, you are cutting yourself off from RECEIVING someone who might be even better for you (and your real soul-partner).
This is why…
The very first step you must follow when manifesting a specific person is to release your limited thinking around the subject.
What do I mean by limited thinking around the subject ?
The idea that this one specific person is the only one for you!
You see, when you have this idea in your mind that there is only one person that can fulfil your ultimate goals and desires you literally cut yourself OFF from receiving someone who is better for you and ultimately for your highest good.
For example: You may have a desire to manifest your ex lover back, or someone specific to love you, because you think they’re “the one” when your real soulmate is out there waiting for you.
This is why whenever I am working with someone around this issue I always recommend they start by being OPEN to the idea that, what they think they want, might actually not be what they need.
And what they need, will ALWAYS end up being far more magical than they ever could have imagined!
When you reframe your thinking in this way you can the leave it up to the UNIVERSE to decide what its best for you, whether that really IS;
➤ Your ex lover
➤ A specific person in your life
➤ Or to manifest someone new!
And this will set you up for success with your manifesting right from the start.
Here’s an example of one of my students manifesting her ex-back and then calling in a relationship that was even more perfect for her.
Jaime came to me earlier this year desiring to manifest a specific person back into her life (it was her ex partner).
Given that I work as an intuitive (as well as a manifestation coach) I could easily feel into the energy of the situation and tell her that her ex was going to manifest back into her life (which he did).
BUT, at the same time, I advised her to release the idea that he was the only one for her and INSTEAD focus on manifesting the type of person and relationship she desired so she could leave it up to the universe to decide what would be most fulfilling for her.
In the end she manifested her ex back but THEN, she attracted someone who was far more MAGICAL and even better suited to her (who matched her new vibration). See her words below...
The other wonderful thing about approaching your manifesting in this way is that you can remove any feelings associated with it being “wrong” to manifest a specific person.
Which is a question I also get asked…
Is it wrong to manifest a specific person?
My answer to this is that placing your intention on the type of relationship you want will always bring you the best results because if you are meant to be with this specific person, they will manifest and if not, someone even better will.
This then removes the need for trying to use manifestation as a tool to WILL someone into liking you, or falling in love with you, which can be actually be encroaching on their boundaries and messing with universal energies.
2. Use Manifesting Techniques To Call Them In
Once you have released any limited thinking around the issue, and are OPEN to focusing on the type of person and relationship you want, (rather than that particular person), the second step you need to take is to use manifestation techniques to call this person in.
There are a number of different manifestation processes you can use to help do this, like scripting, 369 method, visualisation, using The Law Of Assumption.
I recommend using a few different methods for best results and I always advise by starting with a vision board first. In fact, whenever I am working with a private client I will usually spend the whole of our first session just getting their vision board right.
Start by creating a powerful vision board that depicts the TYPE of person you want to manifest and the relationship you desire.
*So if there is a certain person in your life who you would LOVE to be in a relationship with, with use their characteristics as basis to focus on.
The reason why this technique works so well is because vision boards to 3 very important things;
1. They make you FOCUS,
2. They make you FEEL,
&
3. They change your FREQUENCY!
In fact, one of my students ended up manifesting a partner who looked IDENTICAL to what she had on her vision board, and was everything she wanted to manifest in a person! (see pic below).
*If you’re interested in learning how to create vision boards with results like this you can access to my free vision board masterclass here.
When I was manifesting my soulmate I used to stare at my vision board at night, and then imagine that he was lying in bed next to me when I went to sleep, to help me be able to FEEL him as real.
Which was REALLY powerful!
Now even though using different manifesting techniques to call-in a specific person can be simple (in practice) there is a trick to getting them to work properly…
You must be able to RELEASE feelings of; fear, self-doubt or attachment you may have around manifesting the love you desire.
Because at the end of the day, if you have any one of these things going on in your vibration it’s going to BLOCK your ability to manifest the person you want because you will have CONTRADICTING themes in your energy.
On one hand you may be saying:
“Please send me my new lover!”
But your energy is saying...
“I don’t believe it’s possible, I’m not worthy”.
The universe has no choice but to respond by not sending you anything.
Another example of this I see is using techniques like 369 method to attract a specific person but doing it from a place of need and want (which means you are coming from an energy of attachment around your desire).
The problem with this is, this is a vibration of lack, and trying to write down what you want again and again can actually cause you to accentuate the gap between you and your desire.
This is again, why I love vision boards as a first step, because they gently help you to FEEL like your desires are real on a DAILY basis.
*If you’re interested in learning more about releasing fear, self-doubt and attachment this is something I go deeper into in my manifesting course.
3. Meet The Person Energetically
After you have successfully called the person in, and made sure you are in the right energy to RECEIVE, the third step is to meet the person energetically.
I like to think of this step as a first date that happens through your energy rather than the physical.
What you need to do is imagine that your energy is extending up and out of your body, moving through time and space around the world until you find this very person.
The specific person who is your true soul partner, the one you are meant to be with!
Then, make a connection between your heart chakra and their heart chakra.
Doing this process signals to the person on an energetic level that you are OPEN and READY for them to come into your life.
*This is a process that can also be used for manifesting other types of people too! Like attracting soulmate clients for your business.
Here’s an example of what happened when I shared this technique with someone recently…
4. Work On Yourself
The final step in manifesting someone specific is to work on yourself.
And I’m not referring to trying to fix any part of you (because you are not broken), rather work on up-levelling your life.
Because when you work on yourself, and your own goals and dreams, you actually change your frequency to become more attractive to the person you want!
And the most important aspect to note about this step is that…
When you enter into any type of relationship whether that’s; manifesting your ex back, a soulmate, new lover or someone specific, you always want to be sure that your energy is FOCUSED on what you are creating in your life, not solely on the other person.
Because if you place ALL of your attention on the other person, you naturally start to lose yourself.
And the key to a thriving relationship is to never look for the other person to save you, or make you whole.
Rather, it's to lift each other up to be the best that you can be, and love one another without expectation.
I can safely say after being with my soulmate for over 14 years, and in a relationship where we are always supporting each other 100% to be the best versions of ourselves, this last step is the most important.
As always I hope you enjoyed this blog post!
PS If you want to fast-track your manifesting come and join me at my free vision board masterclass where I share all my secrets for manifesting your desires with EASE.
